Relationships with Parents

The most intense of your all relationships is the relationship with your parents because it’s the relation you share since your childhood. But it does happen that as you grow your relationship with your parents starts changing. Previously there definitely used to be some occasional blow-ups between you and your parents; but you also would resolve them successfully.

Now as the time has passed, your relation also has changed; which is really not a good sign to foster vigor of your relationship. Also probably your parents face difficulty to adapt in the changing relationship.

Respect: Respecting your parents is the prime element to yield a sturdy relationship with them. It is in fact a foundation for a great relationship with them. Respecting your parents enable you to generate a tangible relation with them but of course don’t abuse them in any condition. Respect them, their feelings (even sometimes difficult) and the actions they take for you.

Understand: You have grown up and so it is but obvious for you to change but what about your parents? They are still the same and trying their best to get accustomed to your changed behavior pattern. But you sometime don’t understand these things around you and misunderstand your parents care as their interference. Understanding their affection and positioning yourself in the right way will indeed create an active and efficient relationship. So, do allow a flower of understanding bloom and spread its fragrance into your relationship.

Be Accommodating- Your parents always dream about your bright future and for this they tend to guide you in certain things and also sometimes impose some set of laws on you. But instead of getting vexed the least you can do is to listen to them carefully and try to think from their viewpoint. In short, listen to the meaning of their words and not the words only. Be accommodating and give them time and space to have a room for them and their thinking too.

It is a fact that there is bad relationship between some parents and their children because of the mishandling of the children by the parents.

It is wise for the parents to be loving and kind towards their children and at the same time tell them strictly what they should not do. Love and kindness towards their children are the natural instincts of parents. But they should not spoil their children by showing them excessive love.

The relationship between the parents and their children is unique. Though the parents may seem to be harsh with their children just because they want their children to grow disciplined there is a strong bond of love between them.

 A beautiful Quote defines the children's rights and parents responsibility. " The finest inheritance you can give to a child is to allow it to make its own way, completely on its own feet." - Isadora Duncan Quotes.